A MATTER
OF TIMING
reading time 7 min

Some stories are planned. Others happen despite everything.
Ours belongs to the second category.

Before “us” existed

Kriya was living her best New York life — and she knew it.

Upper East Side. Her own place. A calendar full of friends, dinners, and last-minute plans. That unmistakable NYC energy where everything feels possible if you’re bold enough to claim it.

She was a Business Manager for Byredo at Saks, curating events and building something for herself in a city that never waits for anyone.

Her life moved in chapters and boarding passes.
Early 2022. Before Alex.
Paris with her sister — wine glasses clinking in soft, golden light.
Barcelona, where the streets stretched long past midnight.
Mexico with her girls — tacos dripping lime and salsa, sun on bare shoulders, laughter between bites.

She had learned the rhythm: work hard, live harder.
Relentless. Unstoppable. Completely, unapologetically alive.

And most importantly — she was happy.

Yes, she knew the kind of man she wanted. She wasn’t searching frantically. She wasn’t settling. She carried her quiet manifestations like secrets tucked into her back pocket and let the universe do its thing.

Across the Ocean

Meanwhile, across the ocean, Alex was in a completely different world — mentally and geographically. Montenegro.

Coffee. Gym. The discipline of routine.
Laptop open.
A digital agency he built himself — U.S. clients, real momentum, no shortcuts.

On paper, everything was good. Stable. Comfortable.

But comfort isn’t always alignment.

The political and business climate of the Balkans felt heavy and limiting. COVID was fading, borders were reopening, and something inside him was louder than logic. He knew that if he didn’t leave then, he might never leave.

America wasn’t Alex’s fantasy.
It wasn’t a childhood dream.
It was a decision.

A decision made at exactly the right time — even if he didn’t yet know why.

Two people.
Two continents.
Two lives moving forward independently.

Both exactly where they needed to be.
Right before everything changed.

April 22, 2022

Alex landed in a completely unknown country with a friend. Astoria, Queens. A rented house, an active project, and a U.S. client he had come to meet — enough structure to move forward, but no idea how much his life was about to change.

The city’s energy was unreal. Different cultures, races, and languages all moving together without tension. Coming from the Balkans, it hit him straight in the chest.

One night, Alex and a couple of friends decided to go out. They walked for about thirty minutes — nothing happening, no real vibe anywhere. After a few failed attempts, Alex suggested a pub he found on Google Maps. Good reviews. A bit far. Slightly annoying.

They agreed anyway.

When they walked in, it was fine. A lot of guys.
But in one corner — a group of girls.

And in that corner — Kriya. Alex knew instantly. No logic. No analysis. Just something inside saying, “That’s her.”

Collision of Worlds

We had a drink.
Alex’s friends wanted to leave. He said, “You go. I’ll stay.”

He stayed.
We talked.
Drank.
Laughed.

We almost left without exchanging numbers, convinced we’d “run into each other again.”
In New York. Of course.

Numbers were exchanged at the last second.
Then we went our separate ways.

Everything After

We texted the next day.
Pizza the night after.

From that moment on, life quietly rerouted.

Plans reshuffled. Ideas gained meaning. Kriya slowly — but unmistakably — took up more and more space in Alex’s life.

The Philippines and Montenegro.
Yin and yang.
Two completely different minds, cultures, energies.

Statistically — a disaster.
In reality — a diamond.

0.0000001%

The odds were microscopic.
That city. That night. That bar.

Kriya in Astoria — nearly impossible.
Alex, barely two weeks out of Montenegro — improbable, at best.

Yet here we are.